There’s an interesting line in Matthew 17:24-27. In verse 27, Jesus said, “So we do not offend them.” It’s a cautionary statement for us to note. Even though Jesus is in the right, he is still sensitive to those who question what he is doing.
In this passage, the collectors of the temple tax ask Peter if Jesus pays the two drachma tax (verse 24). Peter tells them yes and when he enters the house, Jesus has a question for Peter: “What do you think, Simon? From whom do the kings of the earth collect customs or poll-tax, from their sons or from strangers (25, NASB)?” Peter replied, “Strangers.” Then Jesus told Peter, “Then the sons are exempt (26).”
Essentially Jesus is saying that as the Son of God, he should be exempt from the temple tax. Yet Jesus then adds that interesting line, “So we do not offend them.” He then instructed Peter: “Go to the sea and throw in a hook, and take the first fish that comes up; and when you open its mouth, you will find a shekel. Take that and give it to them for you and Me (27).”
I think the lesson for us here is that even if we think we are right, we need to be sensitive to others so we do not offend them. We need to temper feeling justified in our actions with God’s wisdom. Jesus showed Peter that even though he felt he did not have to pay the tax, that he still let God provide the means to pay it. He let Peter use his talent for fishing to obtain the means to pay it.
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I love how God teaches such important lessons in little tiny gold nuggets that you have to pan for to find! 🙂
I love that passage! Such a cool way for God to present an important message.
Thanks for the comment. Its such a blessing to have God’s Word to guide us. Praise God! May His Spirit fill us with His wisdom. Blessings.
Interesting story, Chris. It contrasts with other stories in the gospel, where Jesus seemed to offend everyone! So, how to apply it to our own lives? Every day, situations come up where we need to decide whether to compromise or stand our ground. If we feel we should stand our ground, we should ask ourselves, what is our motivation? Standing up for the truth, or just wanting to be right? If we feel led to compromise, same question. Am I just avoiding conflict out of fear of man? Or am I sacrificing my own ego for the sake of peace?
(Prayer for discernment is vital!)
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Yes, discernment is very important. The Spirit of God needs to direct our words and actions. It’s not always easy to determine the right response to critics and people who need correction. Jesus knew the hearts of people He interacted with and the right response. We need to prayerful seek to understand the person’s heart.
I think the key is how we receive the words of those who chose to criticize us. Are we easily offended or do we have ears to hear what others are saying to discern what is truth? Do we approach others who need correction in a loving way with grace and when are firm words required to make a point. I find it i interesting that some of Jesus’ harshest words were directed toward religious leaders who seemed to be easily offended by His words.
There’s an interesting book “Unoffendable” by Brant Hansen that explores this topic from a Christian viewpoint.
May we continue to grow in God’s wisdom as we interact with people in this world. Blessings.